被领导表扬时，怎么回答才最精彩？这答案绝了
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.jiuquhe.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010485" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010485"><div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>不久前，职场小白小A说出了他的困扰：</p><p>最近因为工作表现出色被领导表扬了，结果被表扬后，原本关系不错的同事，似乎开始跟他保持了距离，领导对他的态度也大不如前。</p><p>让他重复了一下当时的场景后，可得出以下结论。</p><p>领导：“小A最近表现很出色，因为他才搞定了这个客户的项目，为了表彰小A的贡献，我向管理层提名小A为本季度的最佳员工，大家要多向小A学习学习。”</p><p>小A：“领导您过奖了，还得感谢领导您平日里的培养跟关照，要不是您的栽培，这个客户哪里能搞定，我以后一定会加倍努力，听从领导的指示.……”</p><p>小A话音未落，领导就打断了他的话，“哎，小A，你就不必自谦了，这些都是你自己努力换来的。”</p><p>说完，领导不等小A答谢，转身就回办公室了，留在小A在那不知所措……</p><p>原本以为事情就这样过去了。</p><p>没想到最近几天，他发现同事若有若无的跟他保持距离；找领导汇报工作时，领导似乎总是刻意回避他。</p><p>小A说，过去汇报工作时，领导都会听完他的报告，再跟他讨论一下。</p><p>可是最近去汇报工作，领导要么是听完就打发他走，要么就以没空拒绝了。</p><p>对此，小A深感困惑，不知道自己错在哪里。</p><p>其实问题就出在发言上。</p><p>在工作中获得领导的嘉奖与表扬，本来是一件好事，说明领导信任他、认可他，同事也会认为他能力强。</p><p>可是听完了他的发言，大家的想法或许就变了，能力强可能是因为领导“特殊”关照。</p><p>将领导置于尴尬的同时，还给同事留下马屁精的印象，也难怪大家对他保持距离。</p><p>其实在职场中被表扬，答谢领导无可厚非。</p><p>但小A显然弄错了领导的风格，拍马屁反倒拍到马蹄上了。</p><p>过于强调领导对他的培养，只会导致别的同事产生想法，认为领导任人唯亲，不利于领导未来的团队管理工作。</p><p>而情商高的员工，获得领导的认可时，一定清楚什么时候说什么样的话，能够帮助领导实现目的，而不仅仅是拍个马屁讨领导“欢心”。</p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p> 那么，当我们在公众场合被上级领导表扬时，应该怎么答复呢？</p><p style="clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">得体回应表扬，做个情商高的人</span></strong></p><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要得体回应领导的表扬，非常简单，一个公式就能搞定。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们在回应表扬时，所描述的内容，基本上可以分为这几个方面：</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1.表示感谢：对上级的知遇行为表示感谢。</span></strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如：</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">谢谢领导的肯定、谢谢领导的嘉奖</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2.反馈感受：能够显得更加真诚，不做作。</span></strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如：领导你过奖了、您这么说我都不好意思了</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3.展示不足：保留一定的谦虚，不会让人留下骄傲自满的印象。</span></strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如：</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在XX方面我做的还不够，需要向大家多学习学习、这次其实有机会做得更好，但是经验不足，会努力积累经验的。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果在这次过程中，有人对你有所帮助，也可以提及。</span></strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如：这个项目中，XX方面还是经验不足，多亏了某某同事帮忙，以后会向他多多学习。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">4.告知计划：给人留下你积极上进的印象。</span></strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如：会继续努力的、会在XX方面多多加强</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们可以根据不同的场景，对这些组合应用，示例如下：</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1.表示感谢 反馈感受 展示不足：</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">谢谢领导的肯定，领导您过奖了，在XX方面做得还不太好，需要向大家多学习学习。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2.反馈感受 展示不足 告知计划：</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">领导您过奖了，这次其实有机会做得更好，但是经验不足，我会努力积累经验，争取下次做到更好，我会继续努力的。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3.表示感谢 展示不足 告知计划：</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">谢谢领导的嘉奖，这次项目中，XX方面多亏了某某同事的指点，以后会向大家多多学习，在XX方面更加努力的。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">用这么一套表达逻辑答复领导，至少有三个好处：</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">肯定领导对自己的认同，有些人在回复领导时表现过谦，对于领导而言潜台词就是，“领导，你看走眼了，我没你说的那么优秀。</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">帮助领导树立榜样的作用，既能够彰显领导的用人眼光，也向领导表明了态度：</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“领导，我会继续努力不辜负你的期望的。</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">给同事留下印象，过分谦虚让人觉得虚伪，骄傲自满容易引起他人嫉妒</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最终反噬自己，不亢不卑才恰到好处，肯定自己能力的同时，也没忽略了自己的不足，不忘同事的帮助。</span></section><section style="margin: 25px 8px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当然，回应领导的方式方法有很多，这里只是提供一个参考。</span></section><p style="margin: 25px 8px 5px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; text-indent: 0em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">情商高最重要的表现，就是能够换位思考，得体地说出自己的观点。</strong></span></p> <!----></div> 实际上很多领导更喜欢奴才，问题出在小A应在私下恭维领导而不是当着同事的面好复杂啊！
又老又过时的思想
懒得阿谀奉承，就说这都是我应得的
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