班上第一名原来都坐这个位置？班级里的座位真有“玄学”吗
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.jiuquhe.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010485" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010485"><div class="preview_article "> <!----> <section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 368.009px; vertical-align: top; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border: 8px solid #f1f8ff;"><section style="margin: 20px 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 20px; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.8; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 15px; color: #888888; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每逢排座必犯愁，小小的排座位问题，不仅让老师一肚子苦水，也牵动着家长的敏感神经。“座位理论”背后折射的是家长的过度焦虑，对孩子学习成绩的过度紧张。其实，座位没有“玄学”，家长应趋于理性，学生的学习更多取决于自我学习习惯、专注力，并不是坐在好的座位就会认真学习。真正会学习的孩子，无论坐在哪一排，都会成绩拔尖。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><p class="empty_paragraph" style="clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一直以来，在不少家长心中都有这样的“座位理论”——“<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #7b0c00; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在班级的座位决定了以后在社会的地位</strong></span>”。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">每逢新学期开学，不少班主任都为重新排座位而烦恼。担心孩子看不清黑板、难以得到老师关注、害怕与淘气不爱学习的孩子同桌……<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #7b0c00; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">种种担忧背后，折射出家长对孩子学习成绩的过度焦虑。</strong></span>多位老师反映，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子学习成绩更多取决于个人习惯，期盼家长能趋于理性，不迷信于“黄金座位”，而是协助老师、帮助孩子培养良好的学习习惯和能力。</strong></span></span></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: #2c2051; font-family: PingFangSC-Semibold, 'PingFang SC'; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; text-align: center; background-color: #eae7f3; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"> 每逢排座必犯愁</span></section><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mpa-template="t"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; width: 368.009px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; flex-direction: column; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""><section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin: -24.1px 0px 0px -5.1px; padding: 0px; width: 21px; height: 24px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""></section><section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin: -28.1px -6.1px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; width: 17px; height: 32px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; align-self: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">吉林长春一所小学二年级班主任孙老师最近比较烦，每逢开学之际，她都要遭遇一次“排座位大考”。孙老师说，按惯例，新学期班级会重新排座位。原本是为了根据同学们的身高变化调整座位，也便于同学们结识更多新朋友。想法很美好，现实却让孙老师苦恼。“找我谈孩子座位的家长太多了。”她说，大家都希望能将孩子安排在理想位置。无奈众口难调。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">湖南长沙一所小学的班主任张老师也常遭遇排座难题，特别是新生入学时，由于对孩子个人情况不熟悉，入学当天她会随机安排座位，但每次都会有家长提出异议。“不少家长质问我，排座位的依据是什么，为什么自家孩子坐在靠后的位置？”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">张老师只能耐心向家长解释，然后按照男女搭配、个子高低等情况重新排座，再按顺序左右轮换。但仍有很多家长不满意。“我们家孩子近视，能不能往前挪挪”“我们孩子眼睛散光，在后面看不清”“孩子视力还处于发育阶段，固定的座位对孩子不好”“座位太靠边了，黑板反光，孩子看不清”……</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一直以来，不少学校都上演着“排座江湖”。为了解决矛盾，有的老师选择相对公正的方式，即全班孩子无论个头高低、视力情况如何，都采用前后左右轮换的顺序，保障每个孩子都有坐前面、坐中间的机会。完全“公平”下，很多家长仍有一肚子委屈：“我的孩子个子矮，往后面一坐，只能看到前面同学的后脑勺。”</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不少小学班主任坦言，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #7b0c00; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">为了照顾少数真有特殊情况的孩子，每次微调座位都“如临大敌”，因为一旦开了先例，就会有更多家长效仿提要求，排座位已经成为班级矛盾高发点。</strong></span></span></p><p class="empty_paragraph" style="clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; background-color: #eae7f3; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #ffa900; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“黄金座位”</span><span style="color: #2c2051; font-family: PingFangSC-Semibold, 'PingFang SC'; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; background-color: #eae7f3; letter-spacing: 0.544px;">牵动家长敏感神经</span></p><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mpa-template="t"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; width: 368.009px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; flex-direction: column; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""><section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin: -24.1px 0px 0px -5.1px; padding: 0px; width: 21px; height: 24px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""></section><section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin: -28.1px -6.1px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; width: 17px; height: 32px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; align-self: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""></section></section></section></section><p class="empty_paragraph" style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">小小的排座位问题，让老师一肚子苦水。记者在采访中发现，很多家长的确对孩子的座位十分敏感，在意的原因也五花八门。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">——孩子个子小、眼睛近视，担心其在后排影响学习。</span></strong>“孩子在班级当不当班干部，我都无所谓，只在乎坐哪里。”长沙一位家长告诉记者，自己孩子个头不高，坐在后面看不清、也听不清，导致学习效果大打折扣。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">——担心孩子受周边同学影响。</span></strong>长春家长李女士最近感到焦虑、烦躁，因为孩子新换的同桌比较淘气，她很担心自家孩子不能专注上课，经常找老师提出为孩子换座的要求。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">——担心孩子距离老师太远。</span></strong>大家都希望孩子在老师眼皮子底下，否则“孩子距离老师有多远，自己的心就有多烦”。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多家长说，为了给孩子争取个好座位，他们想尽各种办法。有的积极在家长委员会做事，希望老师在排座位时能顾及自家孩子。长春家长李女士说，春节她送了老师两袋大米，开学和妇女节也分别送了礼物，挑选礼物让她费尽心思，既不能太贵重，也不能太随意，就是为了有底气跟老师谈孩子的座位问题。有的家长要求得不到满足，还会质疑老师不公平，甚至找校长投诉。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“选学校、选班级，现在连座位都要‘选’，‘座位江湖’背后折射的是家长的过度焦虑，对孩子学习成绩的过度紧张。”长沙市实验小学校长王云霞说。多位老师认为，就像挑选兴趣班一样，面对激烈竞争，家长总是担心自家孩子在座位上吃亏了，甚至害怕“一步落后、步步落后”。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不少老师还提出，服从学校、班级的自我管理，也是孩子社会化过程中的重要一项内容，家长非理性参与管理，不仅对课堂秩序造成影响，不利于班级管理，更会对孩子的身心发展产生不良影响。</span></p><p style="clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: #2c2051; font-family: PingFangSC-Semibold, 'PingFang SC'; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; background-color: #eae7f3; letter-spacing: 0.544px;">座位没有“玄学” 家长应趋于理性</span></p><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mpa-template="t"><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; width: 368.009px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; flex-direction: column; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""><section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin: -24.1px 0px 0px -5.1px; padding: 0px; width: 21px; height: 24px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""></section><section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin: -28.1px -6.1px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; width: 17px; height: 32px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; align-self: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;" data-mid=""></section></section></section></section><p style="clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">受访老师表示，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓“座位理论”根本不成立，学生的学习更多取决于自我学习习惯、专注力，并不是坐在好的座位就会认真学习。真正会学习的孩子，无论坐在哪一排，都会成绩拔尖。</strong></span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">长沙一位有多年执教经验的老师介绍，经过大班额的改革，如今一个班级的人数比以往大大缩减。很多班级是阶梯讲台，黑板悬挂位置科学，老师还佩戴扩音器上课，课堂上看不见、听不见的问题已不复存在。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">受访人士认为，<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长与其挖空心思争抢座位，不如脚踏实地培养孩子的学习习惯。一些孩子上课缺乏注意力，喜欢开小差，这是学习方法的问题，与座位并无关系。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">吉大附中力旺实验中学老师王吉宏说，家长应该消除所谓“黄金座位”的认识误区，帮助孩子建立起对各种学习环境的快速适应能力。<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: #007aaa; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长、教师还应当摒弃“特权座位”安排的“灰色通道”，严查“座位腐败”，杜绝“人情座位”“有偿座位”，真正建立起公平、有序的座位秩序。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">王云霞建议，安排座位不仅要注重公平，也要兼顾效率和情理。“比如注重同桌的个性搭配，学习上互助搭配，兴趣爱好相宜搭配，要善于利用孩子间的互帮互助，让同学友谊成为助推学习的力量。”她说。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #333333; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; background-color: #ffffff; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </p> <!----></div> 不要想太多了，学习靠自己{:hemadaxiao:}是的，客观因素是有影响，但是娃娃自身才是影响学习的决定性因素
其实临时调整座位，也是对孩子的提醒
不知道
不知
在理
真勒哇
不得行
学习靠自觉、努力的永远是努力的。
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