想通这40件事，人生轻松多了~

认真地路过 发表于 2021-1-25 22:53

<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="29001"><section><section style="border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);padding: 13px;"><section>最近有平台发起了这样一个话题：想通了哪些事情以后，让你觉得轻松？许多网友的留言内容，包含着一个“面对、接受、放下”的过程。这些关于感情亲疏、个人成长的体悟，最终导向的是“放下”——放下令人感到疲惫的人和事，空出双手轻装上路，准备迎接新的拥抱。</section></section><section style="margin-top: -6px;width: 6.5em;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254);text-align: justify;"></section></section></section><section> </section><section> </section><section> </section> 01<em style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">生命中的朋友来来往往，亲近疏远都是正常的。@夜礼服假面 <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">02</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">不要讨好不考虑你感受的“朋友”。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">@dot</section> <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">03</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">友谊不可透支，总要保留几分。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">梁实秋《谈友谊》</section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;"> </section> <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">04</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">交朋友贵在自然，用不着刻意追求。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">周国平《朋友》</section> <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">05</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">乍见之欢，不如久处不厌。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">@依旧</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><p style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><p style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">06情绪也是有记忆力的，远离那些让你感到消极悲观的人。@abrakadabra anna 07 不要把时间浪费在不珍惜你的人身上。@抱着火炉吃西瓜 08人只能希望别人分享自己的快乐，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">却不能强迫别人依自己的想法而生活。[美]索尔·贝娄<p style="margin-right: 16px; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; text-align: center;"> 09你眼中的自己和别人眼中的你，完全是两回事。 @Huǐhen' 10 <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">一个成熟的人往往发觉可以责怪的人越来越少，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">人人都有他的难处。亦舒 11<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17);background-position: initial;background-size: initial;background-repeat: initial;background-attachment: initial;background-origin: initial;background-clip: initial;font-size: 15px;">得不到可以选择放手，<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17);background-position: initial;background-size: initial;background-repeat: initial;background-attachment: initial;background-origin: initial;background-clip: initial;font-size: 15px;">以为是错过，<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">其实也可能是逃过。<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">@Cha<p style="margin-right: 16px; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 12尽管我的恋爱经历并不顺利，尽管它给我带来痛苦、忧虑和绝望，尽管我想早点脱身，可我内心里对爱情的价值却一直深信不疑。[法]罗兰·巴特《恋人絮语》 13你最初爱的那个人并不是你最终爱的那个人，爱不是最终目标而是一个过程，借助这个过程，一个人想去了解另一个人。[美]约翰·威廉斯 14今年的我们不同于去年的我们，我们爱的人也是如此。时刻在变化的我们，若是能继续爱着另一个变化了的人，这是一件幸运的事情。[英]毛姆《阅读是一座随身携带的避难所》 15 <span style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">爱一个人，<span style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">就是把自己的心和那把锤子同时交给他，<span style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">因为他从此有了打碎这颗心的能力，<span style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">因为这是你心上的人。李静睿 16 千万不要急于做什么。你可一定要记住啊。关乎爱情的事情，都是花费时间的。[日]青山七惠 17<span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">夫妻好比两人一起划船，<span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">不是靠其中某一方就能顺利前进的。[日]荻原浩 <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">18</section>也许，一个人对于另一个人能产生的最崇高感情是尊重，而不是爱或喜欢。[西班牙]米莲娜·布斯克茨 <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">19 </section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">长辈说得也不一定都对，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有时候他们看的是过去的世界，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">走的是过去的道路。<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">@阿氐<section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><section style="text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;">20</section><section style="text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;">有时候远方唤起的渴望并非是引向陌生之地， </section><section style="text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">而是一种回家的召唤。</section><section style="text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;">[德]瓦尔特·本雅明</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">21</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">再长的旅途也会把行人带回家来，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">靴底黏着远方的尘土。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">世界上一切的桥，一切的路，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">无论是多少左转右弯，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">最后总是回到自己的门口。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">余光中《何以解忧》</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">22</section><p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">生老病死很正常。<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">要学会在有限的时间内多陪陪家人，<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">并且爱自己。@东西 23我不晓得你为什么要拿过去的事情苦你自己！过去的事情，应该深深埋葬起来。我们应该看现在，想将来。巴金《家》 24 <p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">你要有勇气做一个平凡的人。<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">@常想一二 25<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">每当我遇到自己不敢直面的困难时， <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">我就会闭上双眼，<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">想象自己已是一个80岁的老人，<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">因为人生曾放弃和逃避过无数困难懊悔。<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">当我进入那个老人的心态中之后，<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">我会对自己说：<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">“我现在最希望的，就是可以再年轻一次。”<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">然后我睁开双眼……<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">砰！我已再一次年轻了。<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">@佚名<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-indent: 23pt; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 26<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">如果人生有奖项，<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">即便得不到一等奖，<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">我们至少也配得上一个参与奖、鼓励奖什么的。<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">[日]伊坂幸太郎<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">27</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">当你明白，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">人生和自我都不是用来战胜而是用来相处的，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">你就会明白有些东西虽然并不合理，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">但你必须相信；</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">有些东西并不牢固，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">但你必须依靠。</section><section style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">[加拿大]扬·马特尔《少年Pi的奇幻漂流》</section><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 17px;"> 28<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">你去追跑了的东西，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">就跟用手抓月光一样的，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">你以为用手抓住了，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">可仔细一看，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">手里是空的。<p style="margin: 0cm 12pt 0cm 0cm; text-align: center; line-height: 21pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">迟子建《额尔古纳河右岸》<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 29<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">不是别人追求的东西，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">就是你也该追求的东西，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">人要有自己的独立判断。<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">@艾米夏 <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 30<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">人生有很多没办法的事，<p style="text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">放弃也不一定是失败者的证明。<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">@比红烧肉还好看 <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="text-align: left;background-position: initial;background-size: initial;background-repeat: initial;background-attachment: initial;background-origin: initial;background-clip: initial;color: rgb(17, 17, 17);"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="text-align: left;background-position: initial;background-size: initial;background-repeat: initial;background-attachment: initial;background-origin: initial;background-clip: initial;color: rgb(17, 17, 17);"><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="text-align: left;background-position: initial;background-size: initial;background-repeat: initial;background-attachment: initial;background-origin: initial;background-clip: initial;color: rgb(17, 17, 17);"> 31<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">假如有一天，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">我碰巧有了一种无忧无虑的生活，<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">我知道我会怀念眼下这种飘摇不定的生活。<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;">[葡萄牙]费尔南多·佩索阿<p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 32<section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">世间也需要没用的东西，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">如果一切事物都必须有其意义，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 15px;">会让人喘不过气来。</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">[日]是枝裕和</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;"> </section><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-size: 17px;"> 33<section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">很多担忧焦虑的事其实没那么可怕，</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">不如放轻松，按部就班地解决。</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">@叨鸟</section> 34 <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">在我们的一生中，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">时间用各种语言来跟人说话：</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">用天真、爱、信仰、经验、历史、疲劳、犬儒、颓废的语言。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">其中爱的语言显然是通用语。</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">[美]约瑟夫·布罗茨基</section> 35<section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">美貌、青春、财富，甚至爱情本身，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">都不能让人免于焦虑和痛苦，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">远离哀愁，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">也无法让他们避免失去自己最爱的东西。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">因为，一生中，有些雨必然得下，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">一些日子必然会哀伤。</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">[美]路易莎·梅·奥尔科特《小妇人》</section><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 36<section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">生活不是你活过的样子，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">而是你记住的样子。</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">麦家《人生海海》</section><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 37<section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">你能找一个理由让自己伤心，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">也能找一个理由让自己快乐。</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; line-height: 1.75em;">[美]马克·吐温《王子与贫儿》</section><p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; text-align: justify; line-height: 28px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;"> 38<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">工作不喜欢可以换，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">没必要图安稳死守一份工作。<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">发展要看长远一点，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">开心和身体比较重要。<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">@创可贴<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">39 <p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我把生活看作人生第一桩要事，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以不赞成早谈专门；<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">早谈专门便是早走狭路，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而早走狭路的人，<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对于生活常不能见得面面俱到。<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">朱光潜《给青年的十二封信》<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">40她爱过，也失去过，这样应该就够了。她触碰过生命的实质，也曾游戏人生，终有一天，我们都将关上门，把一切都放下。<p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">[英]蕾秋·乔伊斯 <section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="15720" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;">文/央视新闻整编</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;">图/视觉中国</section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </section> <section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">见多了人事纷扰， </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">才发现原来那些活得通透的人， </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">都懂得放下过往。</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">生活中，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">从来都是鲜花和荆棘并存。 </section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">愿我们都能慢慢想通生命中遇到的难题，</section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;">面对，接受，放下…… </section> <section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><article data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><article data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto; max-width: 100%; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="text-align: right; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </section><section style="text-align: right; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">(来源：央视新闻)</section></section></article></section></section></article></section></div>

番茄超人 发表于 2021-1-25 22:54

放过别人就是放过自己

不要蒸汽朋克 发表于 2021-1-25 22:56

开心和身体最重要！

九五至尊 发表于 2021-1-25 23:21

平常心

故渊发表于 2021-1-26 08:35

积极乐观的心态干啥都会变得容易些

清哥哥 发表于 2021-1-26 08:45

满足感

肉多多 发表于 2021-1-26 15:13

谢谢分享

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